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You Were Meant to Rise

Own Your Uniqueness.

A bold memoir for anyone who has ever felt unseen, underestimated, or out of place. Your story is powerful, and Never Meant to Fit In will show you why.

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A Story for the Ones Who’ve Been Told They Don’t Belong

Never Meant to Fit In is more than a memoir; it is an invitation to rise. Nicole shares the raw, unfiltered truth of growing up in poverty, navigating hardship, confronting low expectations, and learning to transform pain into purpose.

Through every chapter, readers discover what it means to embrace their identity, stand firm in who they are, and lead with intention.

Whether you’re a young adult searching for direction, a woman rebuilding confidence, or someone determined to break generational patterns, this book will remind you:

  • You are not your circumstances

  • Your differences are not flaws

  • You are fully capable of rising above the limits placed on you

  • You are here on purpose

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Walk Away with Strength, Clarity, and a Renewed Sense of Purpose

what you gain

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Real leadership lessons drawn from lived experience

Encouragement for the battles no one sees

Motivation rooted in truth, not perfection

A deeper understanding of your unique identity and worth

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A reminder that belonging isn’t found — it’s created

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Meet the author

A mentor, advocate, and leader committed to helping you rise.

Nicole Pfister is a John Maxwell Certified Leadership Coach, Facilitator, and Speaker, but her journey began long before the certifications. Her life is the proof behind her message: resilience can be learned, and purpose can be found even in the most unlikely places.

Growing up in hardship, Nicole learned early how to navigate expectations, responsibility, and identity. She broke barriers through education, leadership, and unshakeable faith. Today, she equips others to rise above their circumstances and lead lives grounded in character, courage, and authenticity.

Nicole writes and speaks with the warmth of a mentor, the clarity of a leader, and the empathy of someone who has lived the very battles she helps others overcome. Her heart is simple:


You deserve to own your story, and your uniqueness is your superpower.”

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Speaking That Inspires, Empowers, and Transforms

Nicole delivers powerful keynotes and workshops that blend storytelling with actionable tools for personal growth, identity, and leadership. Whether your audience is made up of students, educators, or professionals, her message resonates across generations and experiences.

  • A 45–60 minute keynote weaving memoir and research to inspire self-acceptance and resilience.

  • A 60–120 minute interactive session with exercises and takeaways for teams and classrooms.

  • A practical workshop on crafting authentic narratives for leaders and advocates.

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“Difference isn’t a defect — it’s the compass that leads you to where you belong.”

— Nicole Pfister “Never Meant to Fit In”

Leadership & Growth

Beyond the book, Nicole supports leaders, teams, young adults, and emerging professionals through coaching, masterminds, and customized leadership development programs. Her background as a certified HR Executive and John Maxwell Coach, Facilitator, and Speaker allows her to blend personal insight with practical, strategic guidance.

  • Leadership coaching is a transformative partnership that empowers leaders to unlock their potential, sharpen their skills, and lead with clarity and confidence.

    Through guided reflection, actionable strategies, and accountability, coaching helps individuals grow personally and professionally—creating lasting impact for their teams, organizations, and communities.

  • Unlock your leadership potential with a Mastermind Session. Guided by John Maxwell’s proven principles, these small-group experiences combine focused learning, peer accountability, and collaborative discussion to accelerate growth.

    Participants gain fresh perspectives, practical strategies, and the support of like-minded leaders—all in a safe, empowering environment designed to help you rise higher, lead stronger, and achieve lasting impact.

  • Nicole inspires professional teams and audiences through dynamic speaking engagements that blend leadership development with real-life storytelling.

    Drawing from her memoir Never Meant to Fit In and over 20 years of HR leadership experience, she equips organizations with practical strategies to build resilience, foster collaboration, and lead with purpose.

    Her message challenges individuals to embrace their uniqueness, unlock their potential, and create lasting impact in their workplaces and communities.

  • Nicole delivers dynamic storytelling and personal growth workshops designed to inspire, equip, and transform.

    Each session is tailored to the client's needs, offering powerful presentations such as Leading in VUCA Times, Keys to Building Your Growth Action Plan, Managerial Courage, Leading to Maximize Performance, and Building a Resilient Team.

    Through engaging narratives and actionable strategies, Nicole empowers leaders and teams to embrace change, strengthen resilience, and achieve lasting impact.

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Your Story Matters. Your Voice Matters. Your Future Matters.

Whether you start with the book, invite Nicole to speak, or explore coaching or mastermind sessions — this is your moment to rise.

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